As we move through the midpoint of summer (whether you define it by school schedule or solstice) the common conversational refrain is that of how quickly the season is flying by.
Even for those who are unaffected by school calendars, the cultural expectations and mode of summer vibes is a thing. People are often out of the office more, gathering with extended family, traveling to bucket list places, or spending more time outside whether fireside, hiking, boating, gardening or mowing the lawn (frequently).
We often equate the idea of the season of summer with time for relaxation and rest-- a time for fun and connection, a break from routines. And it seems to many that this should simply just happen by virtue of season. Yet we know that most everything worthwhile and meaningful requires intention.
In her book, The Power of Fun, Catherine Price explores the necessary components (cliff notes: connection, flow and play) that harness the restorative power of fun. Turns out, the joyful delight of fun is not only good for us in the moment, but it also fosters empathy and resilience.
Perusing the latest issue of BookPage (a monthly literary magazine that highlights new books), I passed right over the review of The Power of Fun. In my video message to my bookish friend, I acknowledged that I was intentional in my (initial) avoidance. As an enneagram 1, my growing edge is to be more playful. My drive to be orderly, responsible and productive results in little space for relaxation and fun…
And Price notes:
“We have internalized the idea that time is a commodity that can be traded and that the most important thing we can trade it for is money; therefore, any use of time that does not result in financial compensation is not a valuable use of time.”
I don’t want to think I believe that…but what do my choices and behaviors reveal?
Over the next few weeks, how can you add more true fun to your life? How can you be fully present and engaged in joyful things that not only bring momentary delight, but also create core memories and restore your soul?
If you would like some prompts in that direction, you can follow the newest devotional series over at Some Comfort and Joy and receive a weekly reflection and invitation to practice for the next five weeks as my writing friend Gwen and I explore the spiritual discipline of true fun.
I have a few openings for soul care conversations yet this summer. If you or someone you know would like to process the idea of incorporating more fun into your life, nurture your relationship with God, or prepare for the fall season and all it holds, you can schedule a session here.
Thanks for your thoughts, Sher! In addition to your thoughts in this mid-summer, I especially LOVED seeing your children and you!! Blessings!!